The generation of lustful men
- Shanniqua Mccurbyn
- Jun 26
- 4 min read

Men these days always feel like they are entitled to a woman’s body, isn't that insane? They truly believe that if they do something good for you one time, they should be rewarded with some coochie and nipple. Sorry for the bad language.
I am going to put some real-life examples here. I know the majority of us are watching Love Island. As we know, a new season has been airing for almost a month now, and each year the men show that you have to keep a close eye on them. They will shapeshift into Satan himself, with quickness. Well, if you have been keeping updated, you know KC and Aniya. They are one of the couples in season 8. They have been having rifts for a few episodes where KC is incapable of telling Aniya the truth and having a serious conversation for 5 minutes. Which, at his big age, is kind of insane but not out of the norm for a man. This really started when Sol (that weirdo) came, and KC started saying how he wanted to explore her and never did. He was a CLASS A COWARD about it. Aniya kept asking that fool, “Do you want to explore Sol?”, and he would just pass it off by saying, “No, I am good where I am; you have nothing to worry about.” Like yeah, okay, why can’t he just say, “Yeah, I want to”? Like he made it seem as if Aniya was restricting him as if she was his mother, like you're a grown man and you can do what you feel like, it is just about being truthful in the end. Which men find hard, because being truthful means you are in touch with your feelings and they don't deem that as 'cool'. What made it even worse was when Sol got kicked off, he kept saying he regretted not exploring her more. UGHHH Loser.
Fortunately, Casa Amor happened, and it really let KC’s mask slip. His mask was slipping before when he was talking with Mr. Jablasian and said Aniya was basically a grandma because she was not putting out at nighttime. Like HELLO!!!!! Y’all get like a few hours of sleep, and you want to fast in a room full of people, gross. Like to call her a grandma for respecting her boundaries but want to say it’s because his love language is ‘physical touch’ like boy please, you are beyond trifling. When a man says his love language is ‘physical touch,’ he just wants his dick to be touched. Simple.

Now back to Casa Amor, it obviously begins in a cruel but needed manner, where the girls watch the Heart Rate Challenge with the boys getting dances from 6 new women. Was it evil? Yes. Was it needed? Yes. The girls really needed a wake-up call. And KC's behavior in that challenge was disgusting because he acted like a boy who is just now getting attention from women. And a girl did express interest in him on day 1. Titi. She keeps saying how much she wants him, which strokes his ego a lot. Since, as we know, he was not picked on day 1 by Aniya – or as it should be said, by anyone.
However, he always mentions Aniya as if there aren't five other girls, but whatever. So, now that he is getting picked, he proceeds to say that he has 'aura' in Casa and that his stock is going up in Casa. He also makes comments about how it took three weeks with Aniya for them to get physical – which is not a bad thing, but it took him three days with the Casa girls for him to get kisses. He says that he won't have to be begging for kisses at night.
Overall, he is a lustful man-child, deeming himself as someone who should be granted access to women's bodies. That’s all it is. Something else that he said was that “The girls are giving the guys in the Villa what we should've been getting.” KC, you are showing heavy signs of red pill and incel behavior, and it is scary. Why do you think that the girls have to give you their bodies if they are not comfortable with doing so? What a fucking loser, I truly cannot stand it. Like you had that “you are the blueprint” speech just to turn around and be overly freaky for some quick cat. This also connects to how men nowadays feel as though you must give your body up when they are being nice—essentially the whole 'Nice Guy' facade. However, why should bare minimum equal me offering my body up like a sex worker?
Men feed off what they see in porn and assume that things will be easy like that. However, that is just feeding into rape culture, since they assume everything must be theirs. Having a mindset like that creates an abusive man who will harm women to better himself. And we know society caters to men and views women as the oddballs. This is what we are dealing with when it comes to KC and Aniya. Women and men are saying that he is doing nothing wrong and bashing Aniya, while she has always said she is not really physical. However, no one really cares because when you are a Black woman, being lusted over is the norm and no one will see it as anything serious.
What an unfortunate world we live.



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